If you are CREATIVE like me, clutter stays cluttered and causes muttering about the clutter, but it never gets decluttered!
So what’s that all about? For me, cluttering results from being blessed – or cursed – with being a person who is VISUAL. You need to have everything in view so you can find it. OUT OF SIGHT AND OUT OF MIND is your motto. Can you relate? So how do you manage that?
Let’s apply this issue to a 12 Step Program, of which I am very familiar and has helped me greatly in the past with issues out of my control.
- Admit you are powerless over clutter, it has become a barrier to managing your life and business successfully and causes you a great deal of unnecessary stress.
- Believe that a force greater than you can bring clutter under control if you just turn it over to the clutter gods for support.
- Make a commitment to getting regular decluttering done by committing it to your calendar.
- Search within yourself to discover why cluttering is happening in the first place and address that.
- Admit to yourself and others that just because it appears to be a problem, it is actually related to what kind of person you are and reflects the nature of a creative mind.
- Be willing to admit to yourself and others that just because you have the gift of creativity doesn’t mean you can’t control the clutter in your life.
- Ask the clutter gods of the universe to support your efforts in managing the clutter in a positive way.
- Make a list of all the people and projects you have disappointed because of you were less organized and efficient due to excess clutter.
- Share those truths with those affected and make amends.
- Continue to monitor your clutter daily and course correct promptly to avoid becoming paralyzed.
- Set your intention daily, using visualization on what it looks and feels like to live a clutter-free lifestyle.
- Share the message and lessons learned with others challenged by this issue.
Now you don’t have to do all of these steps right away. This is a major lifestyle change that thrives on doing one step at a time and moving on when you start seeing and “feeling” results.
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Did you know that “people need people” and in some cases when people don’t have human contact they can die? Newborns denied physical contact with other humans can actually die from this lack of contact, even when provided with proper nutrition and shelter. Older people who lack social contacts may be at increased risk of death if acute symptoms develop, because there is less of a network of confidantes to prompt medical attention.
Working for yourself is certainly different than having a job working for a boss and being around lots of people all day. There are always opportunities to make connections, be seen and known, and create new opportunities. But when you work for yourself, it is up to you to make those connections happen.
I’m just giving you a reality check in case you are about to embark on starting a business of your own and want to find out how to grow your business and avoid the “kiss of death” that happens to 50% of new businesses.
NETWORKING rules as a business builder and here’s why:
N – new connections are made with new people who may need your services
E – enjoyment happens when you learn about people’s hopes and dreams
T – trust develops when you connect with people on a regular basis
W – wonderful conversations often lead to friendships
O – opportunities arise to find even more people whom you can serve
R – rewards come from being able to help someone improve their life
K – kindred spirits show up the more people you meet
I – intimate conversations can lead to deeper relationships
N – notice what happens when you give the gift of listening to another person
G – great things occur when great people get together
So if you are going into business for yourself, networking with people on a regular basis is critical – but pays off with great rewards. What are your thoughts about this issue?
- Turn OFF negative chatter on the news – it feeds into a “down feeling.”
- Turn ON great music and read, relax, dance – whatever the music moves you to do.
- Register for an online course or a webinar that is educational, uplifting, and inspiring.
- Start cleaning, one drawer at a time to reduce clutter and open up space.
- Call friends to catch up – one or two a week is a good dose.
- Create home cooked meals, sit around a table together and have great conversation.
- Start dreaming and planning your next getaway.
- Gather unwanted things – take to Goodwill and ponder how someone else will love having what you don’t need anymore.
- Do a favor for someone without telling them and imagine how good it makes them feel!
- When all else fails, write down 25 things you are grateful for. This works every time!
- Craving to meet new like-minded people and expand your circle of friends
- Craving to make a difference in other people’s lives
- Craving to get healthier yourself
Now if that sounds like something you can commit to, and you don’t mind taking the time and energy to make that happen, then you are in the right place right now.
As I ended my traditional nursing career in the corporate world and branched out on my own, I realized I still had more to offer and craved these three things. I never saw myself retired, so I knew I had to create a new path for myself that would still be fulfilling personally, but would also allow me to continue making a difference in the health and wellness of others. The path I chose fell into place because I was OPEN TO POSSIBILITIES and was WILLING TO TAKE CALCULATED RISKS.
If you are at such a crossroads as this, then I have 8-STEPS that moved me forward into a place of new challenges, renewed energy, exciting possibilities, more relationships, and support than at any other time in my life, more fun and travel, better health (I thought I was super healthy, but found out I could do even better) and even opened a path to financial security (that was a bonus!). Believe me, this was a welcome surprise to me and I felt rejuvenated and ready to tackle a NEW BEGINNING in life. So are you ready for a new beginning?
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We’re halfway through summer and I’ve had more hot dogs, cakes, s’mores, barbecues, and party dinners then I handle. It’s all good because I get to celebrate with friends and family, but I’m feeling out of control with my eating.
Wouldn’t this be a great time to reassess our healthy lifestyle choices and maybe consider tweaking a little bit? Here’s an idea for you. I do a brief wellness review twice a year to see how I’m doing about staying on a healthy path. I also use this as a tool for all my coaching clients as they embark on a new lifestyle path, so it might be very helpful for you right now as well.
Just email me to get a free download so you can do your own reassessment to start getting back on track and ready for fall. Have fun with this!
Picking blackberries is my ZEN thing to do in the summer, as it takes me away from the usual city stuff and allows me to become re-connected to nature and who I am. And since I am also a Life Coach, I see the application of my experience to those of you who might like to do some soul searching as well.
Here are my thoughts on the experience of picking in the patch. YOU can decide how this can apply to your life.
B – Be prepared before you enter the patch.
Shorts and tank tops are not picking attire. Blackberries grow on long prickly vines that not only scratch me easily, but can wrap around my ankles and trip me if I start moving too fast. I prepare and protect myself with long-sleeved shirts and pants, preferably denim, socks, and shoes, no sandals.
L- Listen to the sounds of the woods for guidance.
If birds are chirping pleasantly, bugs are buzzing around making a lazy sound, leaves are fluttering in the breeze and I feel calm, then all is well. At a moment’s notice, however, I have heard a screech or a squawk or a fast rustling thru the woods and know that something is up! It’s amazing if I don’t have the distraction of all the “people noise” that the sounds of nature are there to guide my survival in very basic ways.
A – Analyze your next move before you take the first step.
Before I start to pick, I scan the entire patch and get the big picture of how I will proceed. Where is the best entry point that provides the easiest access, has the least amount of entanglements and yields the biggest return. This is a “prickly” venture and can lead to a lot of scratches, so I need to be strategic and move carefully as I proceed.
C – Check behind you often.
Sometimes when I keep moving forward as I pick, I only see one side of what is available. When I turn around periodically, I see more berries that I might have missed if I were always looking forward. I like to use the “turning technique” by planting my feet in one spot and picking in all directions before I move on, so I can see all the angles.
K – Keep moving deeper into the patch.
The best is yet to come. The first glance does not reveal the true bounty that lies within. As you go deeper, you start developing the “eye” for what you are looking for and you start seeing more of what is there than you originally thought. And berries always appear smaller from a distance, so when you get up close and personal, you really can see how big and beautiful they really are. Of course moving deeper into the patch means more vines, more stickers, more scratches, but no pain – no gain. It is well worth it to forge ahead.
B – Berries that fall to the ground before you get to them are a gift.
Two things are happening here. If you get overly greedy and try to pick too many berries at once with your hand, there might be overflow and they might fall out of your hand and onto the ground. The positive spin on this is that there might be a critter on the ground that had a wonderful berry drop from the heavens right down to the ground in front of it – and it perceives it as a gift! So instead of getting frustrated when you lose the perfect berry, think of the joy that critter feels when it appeared.
E – Expect to experience some pain
I never make it out of the patch without a few scratches, mainly on my hands with exposed skin, but if I pick slowly and steadily and avoid quick moves, I keep it to a minimum. There will be times when you are tempted by a beautiful cluster of ripe berries to reach farther than you should, and then it is easy to get off balance and fall, or pull a muscle. Again, slow, deliberate, and calculated movements reduce the possibility of pain and suffering.
R – Rejoice over the experience.
Appreciate the bounty you are harvesting, how nature provides such delicious and nourishing treats, that you have taken the time to be with nature, be with yourself and be “one with the berries”. The best stress management tool there is for grounding and it’s all FREE.
R – Ripe berries have the best flavor and are easiest to pick.
The biggest berries are the ripest and sweetest, and they are the easiest to pick. When you hit on a cluster of them all ripe and ready, you can cup your hand around the whole bundle and they slide easily off the vine and into your hand. Very smooth! Most of the time the biggest and ripest are found in the shade or hidden among leaves, so when you find them they are a complete surprise. I always get excited when I find them – and usually shout out to my picking partners – “I’ve found the mother load!” So always keep your eyes open when picking, because the best berries might not be in full view, they might even be very low under a lot of brush and you might have to look a little harder to find them.
Y – Young berries need more time to mature
Just because a berry looks ripe doesn’t mean it is. You’ll know right away if it is ready to be picked because if it hangs on tight to the vine and you can’t easily guide it off, it’s not ready. A gentle tug will tell you if it is time or not. If you start pulling too hard you could mash it and then it is of no value to anyone.
So if you want to coach yourself today, ask yourself – How does this apply to your life?
Retirement can be a surprise if you are not prepared because you didn’t pay attention to the warning signs. Here are some “in real time” from nurses currently facing this transition. Check all of those that apply to you as well.
- I felt like I didn’t fit in anymore
- I was being challenged on my work performance after years of receiving accolades
- I experienced “signs of age discrimination”
- I asked for part-time work or less physically demanding work but was told NO
- I was let go due to down-sizing and discovered I can’t find another job because I’m “too old”
- My health from years of physical and emotional stress and strain prevented me from doing my job successfully
- I reached the breaking point from job stress and knew I needed to leave
- I was in denial about facing retirement age because I never saw me “not working”
- I still had so much to give that I didn’t want to leave
- I had no plan for what to do next or who I would become once I stopped working
- Add your experience here__________________________
So what’s next for you? The best thing that happened for me was to have a Life Coach to help me straighten out all my confusion and point me in the right direction as I started to re-create myself.
Yes – you can re-create a new and improved life for yourself with all your gifts and talents, and you may even find life becomes better and better and even MORE better!
So why wait? Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org and I will give you a FREE Coaching Session over the phone to inspire your next steps for moving thru this NEW transition in your life. No strings attached – just great conversation to help you set the stage for your future.
A recent study of more than 50,000 employees from a variety of manufacturing and service organizations found that two out of every five employees are dissatisfied with the balance between their work and their personal lives. If you are feeling out of balance, what would be the best thing for you right now?
Pay attention to what is happening in your MIND, BODY and SPIRIT and begin moving from DENIAL into AWARENESS. Here is a strategy that might work for you.
- Make a list of signs you are experiencing in each of these areas. Here are some examples
- BODY – My stomach is tied up in knots and I keep taking antacids all day.
- MIND – I’ve got too much on my mind of what I have to get done and it gives me headaches
- SPIRIT – I’m questioning whether I can keep working at this pace the rest of my career.
- For each sign, re-write it from a negative point of view into a positive statement
- BODY – I honor my body by feeding it food that makes it feel good and find I don’t need to take medication because I eat healthy
- MIND – My mind is free of clutter because I have my priorities in order and know how to say NO
- SPIRIT – I am at peace with where I am with my work and am looking forward to what is next in my career with renewed energy
- What awareness do you now have about how your life could be different?
“What is necessary to change a person is to change his (her) awareness of him (her) self.” Abraham Maslow
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When your stomach speaks to you – LISTEN UP! Your gut is trying to tell you something. After recently returning from a “life-changing” and “stomach-changing” visit to the first accredited Functional Medicine Hospital and Holistic Healing Center in the world, I am compelled to share some takeaways that have made a significant difference in how I view and treat my digestive system. First – you need to know that about 80% of your immune system and ½ of your nerve cells and neurotransmitters involve your digestive system.
I had no idea that my gut is THE top priority when it comes to healing myself. And I can tell you that even I, as a role-model for wellness, have some things to do to repair some of my digestive shortcomings. Can we now give our gut some love and respect? Let’s begin the process with some simple action steps you can implement right away. There is more to do of course, but this will get you on the right path.
- Drink lemon water first thing
Start your day with the juice of a half of a lemon in a cup of warm water with a dash of cayenne pepper. Lemon can stimulate elimination of yesterday’s food, help destroy bad bacteria in the mouth and intestines and does many other great things. My grandfather used to start his day this way so it is an old-time remedy as well as used in Chinese medicine.
- Eat in happiness and calm
The process of digestion starts with your brain so when you sit down to eat, take three belly breaths in thru your nose and exhale slowly. This will engage your parasympathetic system that slows you down and disengages your sympathetic nervous system that speeds you up. Remember when the tradition was to say a prayer before you ate a meal? That is a practice that works in the same way.
Food starts digesting in your mouth as soon as you start chewing. There is a digestive enzyme in your saliva that starts to break down the food but you need to chew longer for that to happen. So chew 25-50 times per bite of food to prepare the food for its trip down to the stomach.
- Protect the acid in your stomach
Your stomach contains HCL (hydrochloric acid) which is ready and willing to break down the food even more so it can be absorbed by the body. HCL also kills bacteria, viruses and potential antigens from making you sick. Because of these two important roles, you don’t want to dilute the acid and prevent it from doing its job. Therefore – don’t drink water when you are eating.
- Drink water in between meals
Consume half your body weight in ounces “daily” in order to aid your digestion, replenish your system, prevent dehydration and detoxify your body. Add a pinch of natural sea salt to each 32 ounces of water.
So far so good? Can you start doing these things? Need more guidance? Let’s talk! Just email me at firstname.lastname@example.org and we can create a digestive health strategy to help get your gut in tip-top shape!
S – Start a new project that is simple to accomplish but yields great rewards
P – Play often – schedule “play” time or free time routinely on your calendar
R – Rejoice in the feeling of longer days with more time to enjoy life
I – Improve your attitude and let go of any leftover winter grumpies
N – Notice the good in others and say something about it to them
G – Gather co-workers regularly for fun events
“Spring is nature’s way of saying, ‘Let’s party!'” — Robin Williams
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